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Women’s Health and life:
I cope alone. Mention of medical procedures. sexual health
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May 15, 20255 min read


Lots of thoughts and notes
wanting to raise awareness, not doing it, shame, self-blame, definitions blog years old ideas
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Jan 16, 20254 min read


Some of the things I thought were ‘my fault’ or ‘something weird in me’ before my adult ADHD diagnosis
I blamed me.
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Nov 8, 20241 min read


Not being believed is a huge trigger for me
The concept of truth is a huge one in my life. Truth and lies.
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Oct 19, 20241 min read


‘Deficit’
During the pandemic, I was re-reminded why I needed an ADHD assessment
Tara, I’m ‘too much’ How I knew
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Oct 18, 20243 min read


Little hands / can I be part of your plan please?
child parts, curled around my fingers, Wishing - like a child, ‘educating’ for you to hate my wild
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Oct 13, 20242 min read


Self esteem
A question? Bewilderment, ADHD and negative messages received, society, diagnosed as adult
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Oct 11, 20242 min read


Spoken words
Things shouldn’t be ‘the way they are’ just because they’ve always been
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Sep 30, 20241 min read


Why I wanted an ADHD assessment
ADHD women, society’s judgement, my shame
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Sep 27, 20246 min read


Being Me
You bend and you flow
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Sep 10, 20241 min read


Weight
The weight removed, writing, relationship with self, negative self-talk, part two
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Sep 9, 20247 min read


Hi post and spoken words
Tara star poet
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Aug 4, 20242 min read


February me
Hi, end of August me! Six months ago, on 28th February, I decided that I would blog / write everyday in the month of March and post six...
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Aug 4, 20244 min read


ADHD and poetry
Tarastarpoet
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Jun 21, 20244 min read


Over a year ago..
Tara writer, journal, just my thoughts, merely my musings, be kind
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Jun 18, 20241 min read


Sole placed, thoughtfully down
sole placed, thoughtfully down, on concrete, hard stone, slow steps forward, to be introduced to my home, dissociation, a body not owned,
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Mar 2, 20243 min read


Tara Star poetry
Margaret, post-it note on the train, feminist poetry, neurodivergent poet, entitlement, Tarastar poetry, tara star poems, ADHD, writing
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Dec 8, 20231 min read


Minimising, denying.. and other tricks
Minimising, not feeling worthy, denial, wanting to be liked, blog on mental health, poem at bottom of page
hiding,not going through the pain
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May 18, 20219 min read


Blog: Bridgerton.. Definitions Matter
For me, a big focus is how mainstream media and those surrounding the show describe what happened. I would love warnings on shows to include
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Jan 10, 20212 min read














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